Developing a budget does not mean adding up the total income you have to work with each month, then allocating funds within that level. The definition is: “planned expenditures and a program for financing them.” Figure out what you want to spend each month in order to live the life you desire while maintaining your true priorities, then look for ways to fund this budget.

Why? You might not know how you’ll earn the income that you’d like for your ideal budget when you first make it, but you’ll also never find out if you don’t start asking. Your option is to continue to scrimp and deny yourself the lifestyle you’d like to live and end up looking back on your life with regret. You might also find that when you make your ideal budget, it isn’t really as far off as you had imagined before you put it on paper in black and white.